Perfect: Ridiculous and Highly Overrated



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So Yea, I have to say the most ridiculous thing is the need for perfection. Everything must be just perfect…. Really? What kind of self-inflicted stressors are we putting on ourselves to try to live up to perfection or to have to live up to someone else’s perception of perfection. Seriously, how can I possibly know what someone else considers perfect. Furthermore, why is their perception of perfect more important or better than mine? How about just being perfectly imperfect? Can we be okay with that?

What is perfect or perfection? I believe it is an idea that varies by person. Idea being the operative word here… Your idea of perfect may not be at all that for the next person. Some want to use it as a noun, when in all reality it should be nothing more than an expression. One to encourage and empower to say the least. Like when a child proudly shows you something they did or made, you could respond by saying perfect! In such a way to show appreciation for it.



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Is perfect subjective or relative? Probably depends on who you ask. A person that requires, demands or otherwise lives for perfection is more than likely someone that is an abuser of power and control. They drive themselves and others around them crazy with their insane demands and requirements for perfection. They whole heartedly believe that their perception is the only one that counts. Here is what I say to that. If you want it done a certain way or are striving for a certain path to perfection, Do it yourself! When someone tries to help, and the outcome does not fit your idea of perfect, don’t ridicule them, instead appreciate the fact that they tried to help you out and zip it. Why would your need for perfection take precedence over someone’s feelings?

Hmmmm…. Is perfect one of those things that the majority rules. Such as with the perfect body type. Society would have you believe that 36-24-36 and 5’8” or taller at one time was the perfect measurements for a woman and men should be 6’ and have a narrow waist and very broad shoulders. Why? With DNA being as unique as it is, how is it that someone thought it was a good idea to define the perfect body measurements. We come in all different shapes and sizes, so why not appreciate and celebrate our uniqueness. I believe I am in pretty good shape, but I am not 36-24-36 and do not care to be. I am considered on the short side when it comes to height, but I am short waisted and have long legs so I appear taller to most. People are surprised when I tell them I am only 5’3” tall. I also have narrow shoulders; therefore, I don’t wear button up blouses. If they fit my shoulders, I usually cannot button them. When I was younger I tried and failed on numerous occasions trying to be perfect for others. Now I am perfect for me!!!

I am happy and thriving with being perfectly imperfect!

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